2011 New Year’s Resolutions Confession

It’s May 11, 2011. How’s it going with that new year’s resolution? Do you even remember your new year’s resolution?

I think they are silly, to be quite honest. If there is really something you need to change in your life or something you want to accomplish, why wait until January 1^st? Maybe it is because we are too busy living life to think about it until we are reminded, or maybe we don’t need to or care for making changes. Whatever the reason, January is tagged as the month we start improving ourselves.

So even though I think they are silly, I came up with a few things I wanted to do in the new year. Here is my progress:

• Be more “present”. By present I mean living in the moments- good and bad. As the mother of three children and caretaker of the home, I find myself thinking about what has to be done next:

“I need to take the chicken out of the freezer.”

“Those clothes are not going to fold themselves.”

“There is dog poop on the lawn.”

I have really tried to banish those thoughts from my mind when spending time with the kids and Patrick. These thoughts have a place, but not when we are playing with legos, sharing dinner, or dispensing discipline.

Sometimes someone needs to be held for a few minutes, an extra book needs to be read, or timeout isn’t really appropriate. Being present helps determine needs, and enjoy the family. This is a constant struggle. This is something that will probably have to be on my list every year.

• Make two new recipes a week. I have a habit of (maybe an obsession with) collecting recipes that I want to try. I have a neatly categorized four inch three ring binder full of them. If a recipe in a magazine looks good I rip it out, punch it and file it. I do the same thing with Internet recipes, but in order to reduce paper waste I often bookmark it on the computer and only print it if I want to make it again.

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   Last year I realized I was ripping more that I was cooking. To motivate me to dig into those untried recipes I decided to make two new recipes a week.

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1. So far, so good. Some weeks I only manage one, others weeks I will make 4. In the end I am averaging 2 recipes a week. I have found that only a third of the recipes have been kept for my personal cookbook (also a three ring binder) and a few have been total “flop-a-roos” as VW would say.

Better Communication with Family. I started this blog with the purpose of letting people know what was going on with the family, especially family that lives farther away. I hope they are reading.

Learn to Sew. I don’t know why. I’m not nesting. Maybe it is because there are so many cute things for little girls that I could make for Coco if I only knew how to use that fancy sewing machine I have. Maybe it is because I desperately want black out shades for the master bedroom. Whatever the reason, I want to sew.

NO progress has been made on this. I have until December to start. Maybe next month.

What were your resolutions for 2011? How is it going?

Disney Muffin Tin

We are surprising the boys by taking them to Disneyland tomorrow, so I thought I would do a Disney character muffin tin lunch today.

With the amount everyone has been ill lately, I thought it best to wait until the last minute to let them in on the plan.

We had fun discussing over lunch all the characters and the rides we want to go on “next time” we visit the Magic Kingdom.

We ate the character’s favorite foods:

Mickey and Minnie Mouse- cheese

Pluto- Dog Bone aka: PB &J sandwich

Princesses- mango (I admit, it’s a stretch, but I needed to incorporate a fruit and I didn’t want to give them a Snow White apple!)

Donald and Daisy Duck- carrots and jicama

Buzz and Woody- Their faces on Cheese Its (that Buzz Lightyear is pretty self absorbed)

Chip and Dale- Granola and Nuts

They enjoyed their lunch and I now know exactly which rides we will be hitting first thing in the morning.

Next time, I may try to do a Seven Dwarfs Muffin Tin. Sleepy's "mild sedative" would be for me!

Summer Bucket List 2011

One of my favorite blogs (and bloggers) is Kelly at Little Wonder Days. I have to visit LWD first thing in the morning, every morning, when I check my email. Kelly does the neatest projects with her three kids. I have never met Kelly in real life, but I believe we would be good friends- she is definitely “my people”!

Kelly does a Summer Bucket List with her kids each year and has invited other bloggers to get in on the action. I LOVE this idea, so I decided that we would hop on the bandwagon. We broke the list into two categories- things to do during the day with mommy, and things we can’t do until daddy is with us on the weekend or evenings.

When I told Vincent about the Bucket List he went crazy. He has come up with lots of the items himself. I had to draw the line when he suggested a 5 day trip to Argentina.

Summer 2011 Bucket List

Day Time Activities

1. Go for donuts
2. Go to the indoor bounce house
3. Make S’mores
4. Go to the park
5. Make a Pill Bug terrarium
6. Make Jello
7. Play hopscotch
8. Visit Pretend City
9. Have a “Food on a Stick” Day
10. Go on a scavenger hunt
11. Visit the library
12. Go to Sonic for Happy Hour
13. Fly kites
14. Camp in the backyard
15. Bake cookies for the local fire station
16. Picnic at the lake
17. Use only chopsticks for the day
18. Make tin can ice cream
19. Play foursquare
20. Learn a new patriotic song
21. Have lunch at Chik-Fil-A
22. Play in the inflatable pool
23. Stay in our PJ’s all day
24. Sleep in the bedroom hideout
25. Make play doh
26. Picnic and play with friends
27. Breakfast at Bagels and Brew
28. Go to Dairy Queen
29. Visit the Santa Ana Zoo
30. Make fresh squeezed lemonade
31. Visit Mother’s Beach
32. Play in the sprinklers
33. Make homemade pizza for dinner
34. Walk around Fashion Island- stop at the fountain.
35. Ride the carousel at the Irvine Spectrum.
36. Toss water balloons
37. Drive the RC cars on the field
38. Make leis
39. Learn a Hula Dance
40. Visit the Discovery Science Museum
41. Play at the rec. center water park.
42. Plant our summer and fall garden
43. Finger paint

Days/Nights when Daddy is Home

44. Boulder, CO trip
45. Orange County Fair
46. See Cars 2
47. Aquarium of the Pacific
48. San Diego Zoo
49. Legoland
50. Evening Movies at the Lake
51. Dig for sand crabs
52. Picnic dinner at the harbor
53. Visit the tide pools
54. Go for a walk at Rodger’s Gardens
55. Go ice skating
56. Zoomars
57. Get ice cream at Farrell’s
58. Go to an Angel’s game
59. See the Grunions run with Grandvader
60. Get sushi for lunch

You can see more Summer Bucket List ideas at

Little Wonders Days.

Happy Summer!

Derby Hats

Saturday is the 137th running of The Kentucky Derby at Churchill Downs.

I love horse racing. It has been a long time since we have been to the local races, “where the turf meets the surf,” but each year we do manage to watch all the races in the triple crown from home.

Since we live nowhere near Louisville, we will be watching the “fastest two minutes in sports,” at a Derby Party. To get the kids in the mood to watch the race, we made Derby Hats.

The boys decided they wanted military hats, complete with army men and red, white, and blue. Coco went tradition- large and outrageous!!!

I got all the supplies at Michaels for less than $15 dollars. We got out the Tacky Glue and the glue gun and set to work. Here are the end results.

Franklin was not in the mood to model, but his is exactly like Vincent’s.

This is the look I have been getting from Coco when she is over having her photo taken.

I was going to make myself a hat, but the only inexpensive ones I could find were bucket hats... I don’t do bucket hats. I guess after a few mint juleps I wouldn’t care.

Have a great Derby Day. Enjoy the horses, the roses, the hats...and the booze!

A Farwell to Breastfeeding

I warned you it was coming, people. If you are breast-feeding squeamish, or my father in law, you may want to go check your email, or read a golf blog.

After 18 months of breastfeeding Coco is weaned. It was a two part decision.

First, Coco has finally decided that she likes table food. Apparently she did not realize that she was born into a family of foodies. This newfound enjoyment of food was a long time coming. After six months of extra pediatrician appointments focused solely on checking her weight gain she has finally maintained a steady growth curve. She is still in the negative three percentile on the weight charts, but she is gaining weight.

Second, Patrick and I were taking a trip by ourselves for the weekend and I did not want to pack the breast pump. I have not traveled anywhere without my breast pump in four years. That pump has been to Las Vegas, Carmel, San Diego, the mountains, and the dessert multiple times. I pumped during lunch breaks of the bar exam. I really should have named it- we are that close. But, after five years of being pregnant and/or breastfeeding I wanted to sit down at the end of the night with a cocktail in hand and call it a day.

You may notice that neither reason includes the natural child led weaning that is recommended by most breastfeeding experts. This causes me great guilt.

While I should be patting myself on the back that I breastfeed past a year, it feels very selfish to stop now. Coco will still drag me the boppy and point to my lap when she wants to nurse. If I am desperate to get her to sleep, she will drift off faster at the breast than on a car trip around the block.

I didn’t stop her cold turkey, she was down to one feeding a day, but the whole process is heartbreaking. I didn’t feel this way when Franklin was weaned, but I attribute this to the fact that he was ready, and I was pregnant with Colette. Maybe that is where some of my angst is coming from. Will this be the last sweet baby I peacefully nurse while stroking their tiny pink cheeks?

On the night before we left for our weekend away, I tucked the boys into bed and went to nurse Colette for the last time before putting her down in her crib. I found her snoring on Patrick’s shoulder, already in dreamland. It was very anticlimactic for me, but maybe she was ready after all.

Our Green House: RECYCLE

I cannot believe I have not posted in two weeks. Life got crazy with Easter, Spring Break, and our household getting sinus infections.

Welcome to part three of my series on Our Green House: RECYCLE.

If you missed part one and two of this series, REDUCE and REUSE, go back and check it out as some of the things we do could also be counted towards the RECYCLE category.

1. When I think of recycling the first thing that comes to mind is the city sponsored recycling cans that are provided for trash day. This constitutes a lot of our recycling. I try to throw as much of the paper, cardboard, glass and plastic waste as I can into the city-recycling bin. I admit that it is much easier to toss all those empty cereal boxes and yogurt containers into the kitchen trashcan, but we are making an effort. I need to get a cute something to put on the back porch to collect clean dry recyclables to make it easier on myself, but I haven’t gotten around to it yet. Any suggestions?

2. When the kids and I pick up the mail in the late after noon we make a pit stop at the recycling bin and throw in everything we don’t need in the house. This includes opening up the bills and tossing the return envelope inserts. I would like to toss the bills too, but I have a feeling that wouldn’t work.

3. I wish I could say I have eliminated the use of aluminum cans at our house, but my favorite drink, Diet Coke with Splenda (DC w/S as I affectionately call it), is only sold in cans. Since it is necessary for my children’s health and well being, I try to minimize the impact of all those cans by recycling them. The boys love helping with this, which is good, because I go through a lot of DC w/ S. We bought two Oscar the Grouch style garbage pails at Home Depot just for recycling aluminum. When they fill up we take the cans to the recycling center to get the CRV. This is the only thing we recycle for money. It is easy to do, and I want to teach the kids that there is value in stuff that is easily thrown away. We take the money and put it in our recycling jar. I won’t tell you how much money is in that jar. It is embarrassing how much Diet Coke with Splenda I drink.

4. Diaper boxes are put in the garage and used for castoffs, either to friends or to be donated. They are sturdy, hold quite a bit, are easy to transport, and stack nicely in the garage. We always have an empty diaper box on hand. Now that I only have one child in diapers I have a feeling this will change soon.

5. I could re-list a lot of the things I mentioned in the reduce and reuse installments of Our Green House, but that would be double dipping. Go back and read those posts if you missed them.

Since this is the last post in the series there were a few things that I thought deserved mentioning:

1. Composting- Composting is great for the environment and your garden. I have thought about trying it so many times but have yet to take the plunge.

2. Rain Water Collection- We don’t get a lot of rain in SoCal, but if I lived somewhere with rain I would love to do this. It is a great way to water your garden. I really miss a good summer thunderstorm!

3. Cloth Diapers- I am NOT PREGNANT (you can breathe now, Mom)- but if I were I would give some serious thought to cloth diapering. I wanted to try it with Coco, but we had Cecilia coming 2-3 times a week when I worked and I didn’t think it would be fair to her. Plus Patrick laughed at me when I suggested it. I think Franklin would have really benefited from it as he often had a diaper rash. They make a lot of great products nowadays to make cloth diapering easier, and there is a financial benefit, especially if you cloth diaper more than one child.

That’s it. This series is done. Don’t cry. I may post a recipe that involves booze next time! Thanks for reading and remember to comment if you are so inclined.

Our Green House: REUSE

First, I have to say THANK YOU to all the readers who sent me email feedback about my first post in this series. I love hearing from you and please remember, it is ok, and actually encouraged, to leave comments here! I don’t bite- unless you happen to be a dark chocolate covered vanilla Dove bar, then all bets are off!

Now, on to today’s main feature, part two of the Our Green House series: REUSE!

1. I package as much as I can in Snapware or similar storage containers. I do like to freeze things like bread items and fruit/veggies in freezer bags, but I will reuse a bag numerous times before I need a new one. I have about four empty freezer bags in the freezer door waiting to be filled up. I hate spending money on plastic stuff. Remember, I’m cheap.

2. I also pack Vincent’s lunch in reusable containers, including his water in a thermos. He knows to put it back in his lunch box when he is done eating. As an added bonus, I can see how much he ate at lunch because he doesn’t think to throw out what is left- he just wants to play. Environmental friendliness and remote helicopter mommy all wrapped in one Toy Story lunch box.

3. I bring my own reusable grocery bags when I shop. I don’t let them put the meat or dairy in the bags because I am freaky like that, and I wash the bags after a few trips. I figure this is still better than having my groceries packed in disposables every time.

4. As a family, we have stopped using disposable plastic water bottles. I have to admit; the paranoia about what exactly is in those water bottles has gotten to me a bit. Scientists claim that they are safe for the initial amount of water sold in the bottle, but recommend you not refill them at home. As much as it disappoints Vincent, I’m no scientist (nor do I play one on TV) but I am a little leery of the first use too, if the second one is bad enough to warrant a warning. We all have reusable water bottles. The kids still use their sippy cups as well. We filter the water in the fridge door. I use tap water for cooking so the kids get their city-sponsored fluoride. This works for us, and again, I’m not buying water at the store. Cheap.

5. I am a big lover of hand-me-downs! I have a few friends who have given me great stuff for the children. I appreciate this so much. I get as much use out of them as I can and then pass them on to someone I know could use them, or I donate. If you are looking for a good place to make your donations try AmVets. I know they are in SoCal, and probably other places too. They are very reliable, very kind, and they are helping our veterans!

If you missed part one of this series, REDUCE, go back and check it out as some of the things we do could also be counted towards the reuse category. I love two-for-one deals, don’t you!

Next in the series is RECYCLE. I promise not to just copy and paste this post! Get it?

Thanks for reading!